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  1. Don't be with her? You clearly aren't mature enough for a commitment if you so easily cheated in the first place.

    Be single for a while, get ready to be a dad and focus on yourself, you really need to right now.

  2. Where OP is wrong is that she either should have told him when they first started getting serious, or preferably never. There was honestly no good reason to tell him that, that is a “take it to the grave” secret. But if she was going to decide that she absolutely had to tell him, the best time was 10 years ago, and the second best time was a year ago.

    Right now, they are desperately trying for a kid. They want one badly, and he is willing to pay for extremely expensive options. So her saying “Oh yeah like ten years ago, I aborted a kid that could have been yours.” I guarantee what he took away from that is that he could have been a father, and could have had a kid he was raising already; it is clear he wants to be a father, so he is now thinking of all the lost time.

    She should have never told him, telling him was cruel. There is no undoing this.

  3. I think what your best option is depends entirely on whether or not you'd be happy returning to your home country, or if you moved to the currently you're now in for a (much) better quality of life.

    If the former, that's your answer. This man is showing you exactly who he is, and things are bad enough as they are. But things will only get worse the longer you stay, he's clearly not trying to improve.

    If the latter, then perhaps you are better off staying married until your papers have been approved. But as soon as you can, you need to leave this marriage. If you're unable/unwilling to leave him now, then whatever you do avoid sex like the plague or use as much protection as possible. This man is exactly the type to try and baby trap you. I don't think it's a coincidence he targeted a much younger woman from a foreign country.

    And if he's this lazy, nasty, and useless at the age of 34 then he's certainly not going to magically turn into a decent human being at this stage of his life.

  4. Ehhhh honestly the whole thing is bizarre and at this point you are only 22, if you are truely madly in love and you think she’s the same maybe cool off and then try and work through it. Otherwise I would let this end, don’t make promises or say you need time. Just say you need space and think it’s best you guys end it as the relationship isn’t healthy and it’s best if you guys end things here. You’ve accused her, she’s accused you, the trust is broken. And to be honest her behaviour is bizarre and untrustworthy and I would have the same questions and doubts as you.

  5. we support you. there are all sorts of resources to help you stay strong in this decision to move forward separately. So many women would LOVE to have a husband who helps out. Life is too short to be treated poorly by the one who is supposed to love you most. I'm watching my 80 year old grandparents continue to struggle with their hatred of each other. they're both miserable. do not end up like them.

  6. We had planned to do 6 weeks of marriage counseling before we get married so I'm sure that's something we could work on then. His siblings grew up very differently than him. He was treated poorly and was never allowed to do anything really. And all his siblings who are all 10 or more years younger than him have no rules and can do whatever wherever they are.

  7. You let an idiot ruin your day and are still letting him ruin your marriage by holding on to this.

    Do you have a past?

    Think of it this way, who your wife slept with before you is none of your business. She chose to marry you when you asked. All the others were not good enough for her to settle down with. The same goes for your wife. Whoever you slept with before her is none of her business. You chose her to spend your life with.

    Anyway, “banging” someone in high school has nothing to do with today. Everyone grows up and becomes different people once they get away from the hell that is high school.

    She chose you! So, let this tacky ass joke go.

  8. (What the heck is 10% fat milk? Whole milk is like 3% fat.)

    You should apologize to him for deceiving him. And then you should address that he clearly isn't following his food plan and you aren't going to help him starve himself.

  9. It's your body absolutely. That said, I don't find them attractive either and if my wife got one I would be less attracted to her. He doesn't have a right to control your body. He does have a right to be less attracted. It's your decision.

  10. That may be what he said, but his intentions are very clear. Noone breaks up with you because they want to be with you. That's like saying “I can't drink water because I'm thirsty.” Either he wants to end things but doesn't want to hurt your feelings, or he wants to be with someone else without the guilt of cheating.

  11. You married someone based on their looks because you’re a shallow person. You said all those bullshit vows knowing your love is paper thin and skin deep. Looks fade, especially if she decides to have children with you. 20lb is actually nothing in terms of weight. You should tel her so she can make up her mind if she wants to stay with a shallow toolbag.

  12. several things, but most important:

    1) finish school, that is the priority.

    2) a baby will not aid her healing journey, a babay wull exasprate it.

    3) no one is ever really financially prepared for a baby even if you think you are. If you wait for the right conditions you will never have a child. Just have a baby when the child can be your priority and you feel mentally prepared to have one.

  13. It feels like a double standard because it is a double standard. He literally phrased it that way, There are so many ways to deal with this, What would be the best outcome for you?

    ( I don't like the way he phrased it, but it's like a woman's duty. The amount of showering is a function of sex might be there. But i'm sure culture plays a bigger role, and so does the climate. He could have said I want a partner that showers every day,while I dont , Will you indulge me in this? Will you do it for me?)( It also takes way the pleasure in indulging your partner, You could shower and then he could say i'm so lucky I have a girlfriend That cleans up And spell so nice for me, but with this it feels like a duty / or bear-minimum)

    You may keep indulging this double standard, and that would make it ok for him to do things he might not necessarily want to do for your sake.

    One way to make things fair asymmetrically would be : Is he has to do some kind of Chores that are Traditionally for the man, Or whatever floats your boat for example Say you really like shopping a Target he Might agree to periodically be your arm candy and bag carrier when you go target and get a smoothie once a month (or more) (be creative)

    Or if symmetrical fairness is what you need

    He also has to match the amount of showering.

    But at the end of the day,both your actions should strengthen rather than weaken your relationship. Otherwise, you should stop doing it.

  14. Is it always a dog whistle? I thought I’ve seen teenagers using it in an admiring/agreeing way with things that just seemed like good vibes.

  15. We did actually discuss this. She couldn't think of anybody that she would have mad enough to do this

  16. Block her.

    Then stop making friends with women you want to date. And stop trying to date women you're friends with. It makes a hash of everyone's expectations. Ask your three women friends to set you up with someone.

  17. Hi Dad

    You currently owe $XXXXX in overdue child support.

    Upon receipt of a certified cheque, money order or bank draft in that amount, I will request a ticket in your name.

    Until then, get stuffed.

    The son you abandoned.

  18. I might have. I took the word of Eric, who i 100% trust. The problem is, he took the word of Judas who i later learned lied. Its a tough situation, both messed up but i think it’ll depend on how she acts when we talk after i get back. If she apologizes and cuts off Judas, i think we’ll be okay. But we’ll see

  19. You should have run when she started showing major red flags in month one. What else does she have to do to show you that she is not in a good place to be in a relationship, and is going to bring you nothing but grieve?

    Leave her. It has been four months and she is already unravelling in front of your eyes. Most people don't get the benefit of seeing this behaviour quite this quickly – you haven't lost anything, there are many other “sweet, kind of and loyal” women out there who aren't this manipulative and controlling.

  20. wow you really thought a post where someone is upset about their sexuality being constantly invalidated is an appropriate opportunity to suggest they “experiment”. ?

  21. Not if they already on-line separately at this point (which they almost certainly do, and for several years now at that).

  22. He sounds immature.

    My circle has a lot of large manly men . They wouldn’t care if their woman needed to do something girly. If their 3 yr old niece wanted a tea party- they’d be the first ones getting finger sandwiches and playing pinkies up.

    The fact that he calls that behavior beta screams that he isn’t alpha. Alpha guys don’t have to tell anyone they’re alpha- they just are. They don’t care what anyone else thinks.

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