There's a LOT of missing context and info in this post if you're looking to leave your husband over this. Or are you just looking for any reason to leave?
While few, if any, around here will ever condone staying in an abusive relationship, the only error so see on his part here is not checking in on you when he checked on the dog.
Break up with him because he treats you like crap. Stop being ok with being addressed that way. If your BFF had written this post you would likely tell her to dump his @$$. Use whatever advice you would have given and focus on loving yourself!
He never does these things and always has criticisms about people
I assume he looks like he just came to life and walked out of the pages of a romance novel to reserve his special spot so high above everyone else that he is nothing but critical of them?
My ex would make me block people who I went to college with and hadn’t spoken to in over a year because they would like my photo or would go through my list and ask questions of who they were and request I block them. It got even more fun when he had no problem being on-line friends with his ex’s or people he hooked up with in the past still. It’s ridiculous and controlling and shows someone’s insecurities. I’m with this persons logic on asking someone to block/delete someone ^
I won't beat you up and hear what you're saying but the handsy stuff is a dead giveaway that he's a creeper. I'm a 42 yo dude who has younger employees. The hand on the knee shit, extended hugs, etc. Dead giveaway
Honestly, if the tone of the email was so off, and didn't really match your relationship…are you sure it was actually an email TO YOU and not just something they blasted out to every and anyone they thought they could guilt into helping?
Keep in touch with her. Nothing wrong with being platonically together for a while. And if you guys will go to university soon there might be exchange programs available, which opens up the possibility to study abroad.
You don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you, trust me. Find someone who can reciprocate your love. You’re very young and have a lot of experiences to go through. Let him go. You will heal.
I would just break up with him, that seems like a pretty good way to get him to leave?
Did you miss the part where he literally won't go out to eat?
There's a LOT of missing context and info in this post if you're looking to leave your husband over this. Or are you just looking for any reason to leave?
While few, if any, around here will ever condone staying in an abusive relationship, the only error so see on his part here is not checking in on you when he checked on the dog.
Break up with him because he treats you like crap. Stop being ok with being addressed that way. If your BFF had written this post you would likely tell her to dump his @$$. Use whatever advice you would have given and focus on loving yourself!
I can go pretty well with 8 hours or more.
But no way 5.5 is “being deprived of sleep”!
Being deprived of sleep means 0 sleep.
He never does these things and always has criticisms about people
I assume he looks like he just came to life and walked out of the pages of a romance novel to reserve his special spot so high above everyone else that he is nothing but critical of them?
I do have value in other things and in people I do like. But sex is important to a lot of people. Wanting sex doesn’t make me a monster.
My ex would make me block people who I went to college with and hadn’t spoken to in over a year because they would like my photo or would go through my list and ask questions of who they were and request I block them. It got even more fun when he had no problem being on-line friends with his ex’s or people he hooked up with in the past still. It’s ridiculous and controlling and shows someone’s insecurities. I’m with this persons logic on asking someone to block/delete someone ^
I won't beat you up and hear what you're saying but the handsy stuff is a dead giveaway that he's a creeper. I'm a 42 yo dude who has younger employees. The hand on the knee shit, extended hugs, etc. Dead giveaway
Honestly, if the tone of the email was so off, and didn't really match your relationship…are you sure it was actually an email TO YOU and not just something they blasted out to every and anyone they thought they could guilt into helping?
Same. What’s the opposite of a fetish?
A leather jacket however…
Keep in touch with her. Nothing wrong with being platonically together for a while. And if you guys will go to university soon there might be exchange programs available, which opens up the possibility to study abroad.
You don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you, trust me. Find someone who can reciprocate your love. You’re very young and have a lot of experiences to go through. Let him go. You will heal.
i’m not sure how to begin the conversation of not having sex… how do i start that and make sure that he isnt upset?
I am pretty sure she was thinking the same way too until the point of break! Suddenly over a night things started becoming confused