Just a few question if it’s too personal i understand not answering .
Do you feel any type of animosity of not being with someone you’re 100% attracted too, or is like your dream girl?
Is your wife insecure about your type?
I really really appreciate your input it definitely puts things into perspective for me. Where I grew up dark skin woman were not wanted at all, with a lot of working out I feel desirable but I guess my insecurity is him leaving.
If you have access to the finances, you need to take what you can and set it aside for you and the baby before he spends It. Also, if you have friends that you can go to before the baby is born, you need to go. You have to know deep down that your marriage is over. It's time to think about you and that baby and not the piece of shit you're married to.
In this instance, with OP having a gay brother, and her husband never taking the slightest issue with it, I kinda get why the topic didn't really come up. Watching someone actively not be a bigot, would kinda dispell to concern of bigotry to most people.
Like…I never ask my partner if he's secretly racist, cause he's never given me a single reason to believe he is, but also has given me many reasons to believe he's not.
Break up with him. His focusing on the age difference between you and him clinches it. But for that, I would say there is a chance he has belatedly become more mature and you ought to evaluate further. But you know enough now.
“You can do a 5 week vacation with whoever you want but you need to understand that if you go on a vacation with ANY female, that is not family, other than me our relationship is over.
We can talk when you get back and see where we stand and if we want to try again, but this is a reasonable Boundary that I'm not okay with.”
Then just wait and see what he decides. There doesn't need to be further discussion or an argument.
You are being gaslit. She is having an emotional, if not physical, affair. She is ok with it. You shouldn't be. I'm sorry, but you are going to have to show respect to yourself and move on.
Full stop cleaning up after him. He is an adult
Yikes
Wym ?
Just a few question if it’s too personal i understand not answering .
Do you feel any type of animosity of not being with someone you’re 100% attracted too, or is like your dream girl?
Is your wife insecure about your type?
I really really appreciate your input it definitely puts things into perspective for me. Where I grew up dark skin woman were not wanted at all, with a lot of working out I feel desirable but I guess my insecurity is him leaving.
If you have access to the finances, you need to take what you can and set it aside for you and the baby before he spends It. Also, if you have friends that you can go to before the baby is born, you need to go. You have to know deep down that your marriage is over. It's time to think about you and that baby and not the piece of shit you're married to.
In this instance, with OP having a gay brother, and her husband never taking the slightest issue with it, I kinda get why the topic didn't really come up. Watching someone actively not be a bigot, would kinda dispell to concern of bigotry to most people.
Like…I never ask my partner if he's secretly racist, cause he's never given me a single reason to believe he is, but also has given me many reasons to believe he's not.
We were.Now we aren't. But even if I called her to talk she wasn't nice with me. Now I completely stopped talking to her
In my culture, it’s not official until a certain ceremony. We typically do not make it public until this ceremony is done, it’s considered bad luck.
Are you sure you’re not dating Leonardo DiCaprio?
Break up with him. His focusing on the age difference between you and him clinches it. But for that, I would say there is a chance he has belatedly become more mature and you ought to evaluate further. But you know enough now.
Keep it simple:
“You can do a 5 week vacation with whoever you want but you need to understand that if you go on a vacation with ANY female, that is not family, other than me our relationship is over.
We can talk when you get back and see where we stand and if we want to try again, but this is a reasonable Boundary that I'm not okay with.”
Then just wait and see what he decides. There doesn't need to be further discussion or an argument.
He’s getting a free ride and is not paying for enough
You are being gaslit. She is having an emotional, if not physical, affair. She is ok with it. You shouldn't be. I'm sorry, but you are going to have to show respect to yourself and move on.
Avoid buying a living animal as a gift.
Reality check: You should do the improve yourself thing. Build a life for that is interesting for you.
Took a quick look at the list, thank you
Are there “AA” type groups for this type of thing? Looking for something where I can talk about it in a group setting with random people
*Bisexual Sugar Cookies. it's ok, we all make mistakes.
Yeah. He remembers alright.