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Buy him a shitty cheese grater from dollar tree, then go find yourself a new bf
Buy him a shitty cheese grater from dollar tree, then go find yourself a new bf
Buy him a shitty cheese grater from dollar tree, then go find yourself a new bf
Completely block her. You can be anybody live!. It’s not real. You learned that the nude way. Look for relationships with people in real life. Look people in their eyes when you get to know them.
Yes. And also seems to find it hard to take in what i want. I remember her becoming very angry and rude at me after I calmly expressed my need for personal space or privacy.
Dump this guy, the more UTI’s you get the more you run the risk of getting antibiotic resistant bacteria which starts to get very serious very fast. He’s not a winner, just move on. I’ve dated a couple of guys where my UTI’s magically disappeared when I stopped sleeping with them, sometimes the skin or fluids is just not compatible with yours.
Does respecting your partner's feelings work both ways? She is literally imposing restrictions on his career, and phrasing it like he doesn't respect her if he doesn't follow it. To me that would be disrespectful enough to leave I think.
This is pretty stalkerish. I’m kinda confused why your lawyer is saying you can’t do anything, you should be able to file at least a no-contact order. Does your university have a police office? You should go down there and talk to them, usually the campus police are a little more chill than actual cops IMO.
I work at a dealership and he’s a technician. I’m sure the computer thing makes sense now.
Wow. What a shit take. Thats actually impressive.
Wow one check at your post history shows you blame women for abusive relationships they end up in. You’re a sexist person who blames women for the abuse the endure. I seriously hope you can grow some day because that is some toxic ass shit.
Nope, what you call aftercare is generally a great thing for a man to do after sex of any kind. It creates even more of a bond with the woman he's had, and helps to develop more trust between them because it also makes her feel safe. Most women don't want to be viewed strictly as toys to be taken down off a shelf to be used, so cuddling, stroking, and kind words are great ways to show that a man genuinely enjoyed what was shared between them and cares enough to take care of their minds after being rocked by wild surges of adrenaline. Just communicate that you want to cuddle with him and be present as a couple after sex and be pleasantly direct about your reasons why.
This. You are the only thing standing in the way of this dog killing your child. The dog needs to be put down immeidately or you need to move out with your child and your dog. There is no equivocation on this.
There is a woman in Tenessee right now grieving her infant and toddler because their dog killed the children and attacked her to the point of disfigurement. This was a family pet that had NOT tried to attack the children. Think long and very hot tonight about your choice to elevate your husband's want above the life and wellbeing of your child.
I mean in the thread, you strange little guy. Why are you foaming at the mouth because someone is defending a woman that you're trying to lead a witch hunt on after she was raped? What's wrong with you? Are you senile?
It's true that it gets harder to find friends as adults but is it really friendship? If he isn't hellbent on making you his girlfriend, would he be putting this much effort? I see it as you being cruel to the both of you.
Especially when it’s pork they’re jerking off to…
a guy who’s only licked one girl who used pine scented soap.
He is falling into a black hole. Don’t let him pull you in too. This is your life and you have to live! it.
There are suicide hotlines and supports he can call. He could check himself into a hospital. You aren’t the only thing keeping him alive.
He may actually do better when you’re gone.
It’s time, really 7 years invested, what else could matter above and beyond all else.
Where did I shame either of you?
What are you looking for?
you've said you won't divorce. why not?
the absolute audacity of your husband and so-called friend boggles my mind. what did they THINK was going to happen?
you need to seek therapy for yourself to find out why you changed your mind and agreed to this. You're not happy – and your children are going to learn that THIS is a normal relationship – which it is not.
He is trying to or actively cheating on you with someone that has your sisters name. It was an accident. But yeah he is out there on them streets. Sorry sis.
I am what’s best for them I’m their mum and I love them a lot. I don’t know maybe it would be worse if things got found out later rather than sooner.
I agree in a way but I don’t think abandoning them is right for me, I tried it. It didn’t work because I just felt a mountain of guilt. Like it was spiritually wrong of me. It’s very difficult but also I feel like I’m gaining wisdom, I see all the wrong, I see exactly where it stems from, I examine those areas within myself and make sure nothing “grows” there if get that I mean. It’s like a strange kind of x mode therapy in itself. That’s the way I think of it anyway. I’ll gain more space soon of course but I don’t want to exile him from my life, he literally has no one else because he’s so prickly. I don’t know… I probably need more therapy. ?
Your husband’s response is very extreme. Is this level of control normal in your relationship?
How offensive to a women to ask “what do I get” just after she agrees to spend her life with you….
Historically an engagement ring was about a man showing he would sacrifice to provide for a women, and it gave her some guaranteed financial stability should the marriage end. You are saying loud and clear thw amount you are willing to sacrifice for something you don't directly benefit from. This will not work for a women the tradition matters to.
Try compromise – can she contribute to the ring? Will you combine finances before or after marriage? Will she be contributing to a down payment? Welcome to the first test of your potential union, it's time to demonstrate you can both truly hear what the other is saying and find common ground.
Lol, he has a prostate and no IBS, so it could well be! ?
Sorry I could never feel content and would always feel insecure around him now. That’s just me but I personally would not ever recover from that. Especially the way he way talking about it, and the way he apologized, he didn’t even comfort her by saying he doesn’t feel that way now, just that “he never meant for her to see that.” Yeah, no shit. You’re a stronger person than I am if you can move past this because it would destroy me.
I feel like you being a bad partner at the time is very relevant to this story.
Why is it rude to call someone fat?
OP,
Your trying so hard to find and stay in a relationship that your not taking your feelings and security into account.
This relationship is very unhealthy for you and you need to remove yourself from it. Look, if I did something wrong and really wanted to repair damage, I would lay it all out and talk about it. Once it was all out there is nothing more I could add to it.
He shuts down or gets angry when you try to talk about it because he knows he is wrong, he knew of your past and he is using it against you, which is the shittiest thing to do.
Cantaloupe is tasty
Yikes, that sounds very toxic and like a horrible relationship. You have control issues but I do agree it’s good to find this out early so people can leave you when they realise who you are.
ares is using you. he is treating you the exact same way he is treating his actual boyfriend— when he gets sick of one, he drops them for the other, and ping-pongs between the two of you. it’s sad. you should cut him off
You dont stop her. You tell her your boundaries and if she breaks them, then you leave the relationship.
this gotta be fake, ain’t no one this dumb lol
I know I know but he’s my first love and it’s hard 🙁
Correcting false assumptions doesn’t mean I’m bothered
Damn well I hope not. She doesn’t know that I’m not religious.
I'm with you ? %
This is where you give your husband an ultimatum and get your cat back.
Then divorce him anyway because you'd be foolish not to.
You should look into your astrology birth charts, but no you don't owe him anything but a kind understanding break up and to create the life you want for yourself if that doesn't involve him then that's okay but you have to ask your heart
I trained MMA, too, and I 100% agree with what you said.
But, you do see that all I was doing was shooting down the other commenter's silly comparison of going to the grocery store being on the same level as a BJJ gym.
Why can't people follow comment threads in this sub without jumping to wrong conclusions that I didn't make and then downvoting me for their own mental deficiencies and inability to follow a discussion?
I was addressing your comment. You mentioned male murderers which means men as the aggressor not victim.
I text my wife because we live! together and our availability affects our plans, especially with kids, and of course we don't want to worry that something has happened if one or the other wasn't at home when expected.
I did NOT do this when we were dating and living separately. And her demanding this would definitely have felt controlling and as if she didn't trust me, and it would have been a red flag to me.
Really? Can it be false negative? It didnt make sense to me who would have put me as a contact, but with that girl watching my story, I wonder if she was figuring out my name to give the health unit to tell me without telling me……
We all like specific types of validation. The problem is, we are all different and seek different types of validation. You are looking for words of affirmation to validate the hot work you've done with your health.
Most likely she doesn't even realize how important these gestures mean to you, and once she does will have no issues validating you.
You need to tell her about this though, or you are just going to end up resenting her in the long run.
I hope you read her edit where he threatens her life. I think you owe op an apology now
Man you're right. I just dont know how to coexist till the time i can file for divorce.
Things worked out the way they should have worked out.
While I find his joke innocuous, you obviously didn't and let him know. In turn, he realized that you and he weren't a good match.
Sometimes men have no control over getting hard, it's not his fault. And your friend sucks, doesn't matter if she only does this while drunk it's completely inappropriate.
Ah I see. That is quite a pickle. It may be that you two aren’t sexually compatible because of this. Then again, it sounds like your gf just wants to feel like she’s making you feel good rather than all the focus being on her.
To be clear I don’t know the exact specifics on timing yet – how often they were together, how long, etc. I’m planning to ask her, but wanted some space to think through my questions and feelings beforehand.
You’re correct that this context + how she was communicating with the ex is very important to consider. Im not sure where things will go at this point, but we will see.
Exactly. Her next highest texting month was around 800. For an entire month. She averages half of that IN A DAY
She must know your relationship is on the rocks correct? You are not happy? The relationship isn’t working? Be honest and tell her before she is more financially destitute. There is no reason she cannot work full time and find a roommate
make ambiguous confusing statements then insult people for not understanding them
such a fun game
How do we know that their “friendship” isn't the reason he stopped seeing her professionally? Maybe something was happening and they said this can't happen IF I'm your psychologist…so I'll stop being your psychologist.
Sounds like your friend's girlfriend is just kind of a jackass, honestly
So far as I can tell from this the problem is you have shit friends.
I know. I was going to say this one is a post for just no mother-in-law and raised by narcissists. Good lord, the entire post was mE, mE, mE. WhAt aBoUt mE? My ex's mother was like this and she's the reason I didn't marry him. If it wasn't for her, I would probably be celebrating my 25th wedding anniversary but oh well. I still resent her to this day for it. Last I heard, she still tries to control him. I'm just glad I don't have to deal with it everyday anymore.
I know. I was going to say this one is a post for just no mother-in-law and raised by narcissists. Good lord, the entire post was mE, mE, mE. WhAt aBoUt mE? My ex's mother was like this and she's the reason I didn't marry him. If it wasn't for her, I would probably be celebrating my 25th wedding anniversary but oh well. I still resent her to this day for it. Last I heard, she still tries to control him. I'm just glad I don't have to deal with it everyday anymore.
So your position is that doing something bad 20 years ago reflects worse on your character than doing something bad last week?
Be a better stripper? ? idk, but… Why would you want a man that doesn't like you, doesn't care about you? Let him be, focus on you. He's apparently got lessons to learn. Take yours and go focus on you. You're beautiful just as you are. There's somebody willing to show you, but you're messing around at McDonald's. He's over there at the steakhouse, you know? Find your worth, fuck that guy, he is the one losing. Big hugs and lots of love.
Okay thank you! The candle was nice And smelt good. Thank you for your feedback! I do need to use the shampoo for real.
Ramadan may have reminded him that he shouldn't have sex before marriage.
If his NPI number doesn't show up, it's a big red flag.
There's a big chance he's lying. I'm not a doctor but I have a DNP. Patients can look up my name to see my entire work and educational history. It should be the same for this guy if he's being truthful.
No i havent, perhaps I should. Thanks for bringing this up. All the times it’s happened I get shocked. I’m just like “that’s A LOT to you?!” And he’s like “YEA??” Like there was this time where i didn’t eat for a day and I said I could go for some food n he was like “?? But you just had a sandwich yesterday??” Hearing this stuff often makes me feel like a fat mooch
It was him. He’s trying to project to put you in defense so you can’t be on offense. Is he always abusive?
Sure, but how is it self destructive conduct to limit interactions with people who have consistently steamrolled over boundaries etc etc? Like… are we reading the same post?? I would guess it’s far more likely that this therapist is a fallible human (as are we all) and has some sort of blind spot around this kind of situation. YMMV
No
It's complete sentence
Thank you. Of course, happy I could help in some way. Take care bud x
Please read the OPs comments and others. There are literally people telling her that unless he is able to make her cum every time regardless of how long it takes then they should have no sex at all even though as I pointed out, for a significant number of people cuming every time is not a thing.
I concede he should always try to get her off, but making it that if he is unable to commit to get her off every time then they should not have sex will only lead to one conclusion. Perfect is the enemy to great. In wanting perfection, she may lose out on a great thing when we are literally arguing about something that happens about 10% of the time according to OP
Yeah I’m trying not to reach out so I can wash out the emotion over time, it’s just so hard lol.
Lot of missing info, too much to really give advice. Why did he move out? How long have you lived together? What are the agreements you had with money? You’re broken up, right?
In any case, it sounds like you won’t be getting that money.
Do you have any friends? Introduce him to some people.
No, his parents are dead.
Can't she just cancel her hotel booking and go somewhere else?
Thank you. She’s gotta do this for her and I’m sure she would do the same if some big opportunity came up for me.
He is 35 no real job never had real job … It is time to leave… He is Nick miller from new girl except without a job
That makes a lot of sense, thank you!!
Just let the weekend take its course. He obviously doesn't want to harm you, and no doubt if you say stop, he would. Wear something comfortable, just cuddle, and keep reminding yourself, “he's not going to hurt me.” You can always sit on the couch with him and watch a movie, let him touch you, touch him (trust me, he won't mind)
Another one you could try is massage each other. Both of you read up on it, and yes it does help you relax. You can lie on your stomach, and let him work on your back. It might help you to get used to him touching you. You could massage him first as a way of demonstrating “I like this.” Depending on how comfortable you are with it, you could start with his shirt off, or in his underwear. You can do likewise, and he can always ask how far he can go in massaging you.
That's a boundary for me. I wouldn't date anyone who had an ex still in their friend or social circles. Some people are fine with it, I'm not one of them. I would just say thanks, but no thanks, and move on.
I’m not sure why he would lie about his last relationship, but who knows. He’s not a very sexual person. I’m literally the one who teaches him everything lol. I don’t think he even watches porn. When I look at his TikTok feed it’s just his niche interests and not a single half hard woman in sight lol.
Dump. Him.
I only got to item # 3 on your list and I was already going 'OH HELL NO!' As I finished the list it just got worse.
You are not overreacting as far as I can tell.
This is very controlling behavior… I've had experience with controlling guys and once they get into their control issues they rarely get less controlling, only worse and worse.
It sounds like you care about him at the same time it doesn't sound like he is very good for you.
Wishing you all the best…
Ask her out
You’re right. I am getting ahead of myself and just need to let it be.