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One of the worst influences of popular culture on young people is the idea that if a breakup happens, there has to be a good guy and a bad guy. This really doesn't appear to be the case here. She wasn't cheating on you, she didn't mistreat you, and she didn't break up with you on a whim. She needed to move on and find her own identity away from you.
And it's super hard, but you have to let her.
This is not the end of your dating life. You will get over her, move on, and find someone else. You are not undateable because she left you. I'm sure that if she saw such value in you that she was with you for 6 years, you must be a great guy.
There's no easy way to get through this. You just have to get through it. I'm sorry you're going through a tough time.
So often we hang our ability to move on from a bad situation, on the other persons ability to give us the closure we think will somehow make it better.
You know. You have proof.
He is a cheater. He is a liar.
What do you think the admittance of wrong doing from a liar and a cheater can give you, that standing up for yourself and loving yourself enough to walk away and leave him wont also achieve?
I say this as someone who have also raged at others for refusing to just own up to what they are doing. Sometimes I think it was partially about if I could make them say out loud what they did and own up to it, they might somehow finally change. A different way of giving them a second second chance. Sometimes I thought that if I heard them say it I didnt have to feel as crazy, like I'm the problem, relying on them to absolve me of any doubt. Every time someone did admit to something, it was never what I needed it to be. I try my best to spend my time and energy on forgiving myself for not seeing it sooner, I work on trusting myself and I dont chastice myself for the things I missed now instead.