How do I (23m) tell my sister (23f) that her “self-defense” keychains are actually putting individuals in more danger?

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Therefore my sister " Jill" (fake name obviously) started a small side-business selling self-defense keychains live! after the girl was mugged coming home from Uni a few months ago. Recently I was able to stop by and see her and she gave me one to give to my gf " Talia" (21f. )

Well Talia' s stuck near the frosty circle for another couple weeks intended for work so I' ve had the keychain sitting down around for a few days and am finally decided to check it out. Visually, it looks great! It offers the long spike factor, a personal alarm, seatbelt cutter, a whistle, a torch, door-pull, wrist strap, an AirTag holder (unofficial), and some pieces that look like container openers? (I' m not really too sure what they' re for and at this time I' m afraid in order to ask because the answers are so depressing)

Anyway, on closer inspection I noticed that the things i thought was metal at first was actually some kind of gleaming sparkly plastic or polymer-bonded. Ok, no big deal, this looks nice. I tested the seatbelt cutter upon some denim scraps I needed laying around and it worked well great! Even had a key to deploy a window-smasher, 10/10 no complaints there.

But then I tried the particular whistle… it was nearly noiseless. Ok, crappy plastic whistle, how about the little noise grenade then? Barely better. I actually left it ringing upon my bed, went to the particular hall and closed the doorway, I could barely hear everything. It sounded kind of like the particular whine of fluorescent lights. Next up I returned in, closed my power outage curtains and tested the flashlight. It was ok, it had been the press-to-use kind plus did a decent job lighting up my room, but the switch was hard to hold straight down and the light would glint occasionally.

The AirTag owner was just a flimsy plastic material sheet heat-sealed together with a tuck-in flap to secure the particular AirTag. I tugged onto it and it tore straight by 50 % off the keychain like it was butter. Tried the door-pull and it worked (not certain what I was expecting presently there. ) And finally the stick. In case you don' t know what I' m talking about, Used to do my best to Google this and I think it' s called a " kubotan? " Whatever it is, when I examined it by stabbing it in the dirt it was so smooth and slippery I actually ended up just jamming my hand against the ground. I finally tried the bottle opener-looking things on a beer (they work, but the plastic is definitely chipped now) and had an excellent long sit-' n-think as to what I' d just discovered.

It was very clear that Jill had used the cheapest things possible to make her keychains, and I didn' t feel safe having Talia travelling with that will to " protect" her, especially when the top two exports where the lady currently is are SA kits and perma-sleeping human beings. I' m really mad at Jill right now for potentially putting people in danger with faulty/ineffective products, whenever all they have on the damn thing that even midway works are the seatbelt cutter, flashlight, bottle opener, and the door-pull!

I want to tell Jill her product is crap, but I' m worried that I' m too upset and will say something I' ll regret. I think the girl business should continue, using higher-quality items that actually work. All I want to do at the moment is shout at her, but I don' to want her to give up about this, and she' s already been extra sensitive since the mugging so I know she' t not going to take this well.

EDIT: Y' all' re so hung up on me testing the keychain. We check each other' s stuff before we hand this over. She tested my birthday power drill before I even set eye on it. We call it " quality assurance" and we possess blanket permission to use each other' s stuff. A person guys are so gatekeepy together with your things. My question is about my SISTER and the girl cheap keychains.

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7 thoughts on “How do I (23m) tell my sister (23f) that her “self-defense” keychains are actually putting individuals in more danger?

  1. The fact that she didn't message you beforehand to let you know that she'll have company when you come home is really bad from her end.

    Maybe you could've said something like “Hi. Sorry for not being myself. I have a headache and i'll go lie down for a bit.”. It would be a bit better for you and you'll be avoiding both of them until you feel better.

    I think you both need to apologize for each other. She didn't inform you and you could've phrased it a bit better.

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