This is part of why people say that 20/25 is a much bigger difference in age gap than 25/30. They’re both 5 years but it’s a huge 5 years. She’s not ready to be where you are in life. I don’t think it’s helpful to ask her to adjust her boundaries. Just tell her you’re not a fit. You know her boundaries. Don’t push them. You’re 25 and she’s 21. She will change a lot on the next 5 years. She deserves the chance to go at her own pace.
Lol porn and hookers are not the same as an ‘R’ rated movie, ffs.
This is part of why people say that 20/25 is a much bigger difference in age gap than 25/30. They’re both 5 years but it’s a huge 5 years. She’s not ready to be where you are in life. I don’t think it’s helpful to ask her to adjust her boundaries. Just tell her you’re not a fit. You know her boundaries. Don’t push them. You’re 25 and she’s 21. She will change a lot on the next 5 years. She deserves the chance to go at her own pace.
Get the better outcome for yourself. He's inconsequential now. Tell your lawyer you want an even better deal.
But thank you nevertheless.