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That category is rather mild all things considering. It really shouldn't be a big deal. But talk to him if it'll make you feel better.
You can start by actually talking to your husband about your needs in terms of “you” rather than in needy and dysfunctional terms of “you competing with your children”
That would make a lot of people uncomfortable.
I think she had some bad luck in the past. Two guys cheated on her while she was pregnant and one guy was when they were in high school
INFO: you’re giving us random non sequitur chunks of information that clearly build a bigger picture that we cannot see. i can’t even ask you for anything specific, just to elaborate on everything
ive never cheated or was ever unfaithful
(maybe not so kindly)
I am in no place to ask her of such thing. But yes she has been to some for that and some other reasons.
You need to have an honest conversation about this before she squeals to her friends
You gotta wrap up the pork and be sure to tie it off!
I work hybrid and I mostly always cook for my gf. She doesn't online with me just to be clear and she doesn't wfh. But she will come over after work and I'll make dinner.
Most of the time she wants to help me or do something. And I actually like cooking, so that's why I volunteer to do it. For me it's a way to decompress.
But, in your situation your partner is putting pressure on you to do this and it's turning into more of a job. So, yeah that'd upset me too.
I also acknowledge that work culture in the states is toxic af. And your bf is probably under a lot of pressure and letting it affect his relationship with you.
Is there an easier solution than someone cooking every night? Also if homie wants a packed lunch he can do that himself….
we were talking about what we did the whole day and he told me this. i think we communicate openly about things
Just block him and never see him again. You don’t need his permission to break up with him and at this point a proper break up is just a curtsy he’s not worthy of.
He’s a player and you’re better off blocking him.
I think you're right but I don't know how to break off the friendship we've been friends since middle school and he's talked to me about his mental health struggles and I don't want to be responsible if he does anything
I hate to say it but this was my first thought. She tried something with someone else, realised the grass was indeed not greener, realised she had a good thing going with you and changed her mind.
It could have been something simple like going on a date, doesn't have to be physical contact.
If he accuses you of cheating get a paternity test done. ?
I mean, considering you're already doing better than 90+% of everyone on the planet, it's wild that she still doesn't respect you.
Maybe he likes to eat pancakes?
People who react that badly and that defensively are very rarely telling the truth. I'm willing to bet you're currently being trickle truthed. Good luck
Hon, if you are truly invested in trying all options to mend your relationship, whatever you do, do NOT give him a pass to run off making love to other women and being inside them. I am not sure why you think that’s a good way to fix things, when the thought of him in the throws of passion with other women or even wanting to be, was at least half the reason you were crushed. Once he does that, there will be no coming back from it. That will be the final nail in the coffin. Besides, I would never trust that protection would be used all the time so you would be opening yourself up to STD risks, both curable and incurable as well as cancer causing.
Instead, a better option is trying marriage counseling. His excuse for his reasoning to me seems ridiculous and conflicts with his other comments. It also neglects to give you a sound explanation as to why he would sacrifice you being with other men, just so he can have other women.
As for those polys who were harassing you, they can fuck off and take a hike. Your post was not the least bit offensive to them. Not being poly and not having the desire to be one is also not offensive. And if that offends any of them, thats too bad, life is too short to entertain the level of stupidity that compels some one to be offended over some one else’s relationship preferences.
Your coworker likes you and resents your bf bc of it.
You can be nice and at the same time tell him you don't want to talk about your relationship. But you do need to keep him at arms length.
I’d be making good use of the door – these type of behaviours escalate over time. I’d be walking away now and not giving it a chance to get worse.
The grass is greener until you realize that sex is just sex. By then, well hopefully you still have someone that isn't a total ass that's around once you've had your fill of pointless junkie endorphins.
If you want pointless sex, do it single and on your own time.
Okay. Who you are at 16 isn’t who you are now. Staying because you are afraid of being alone isn’t fair to her or to you. You know this isn’t forever. Be grateful for growing up together and that she was your first love. But. Move on. It’s the right thing to do because you know it’s going to end and sooner is kinder than later.
Thats definitely something we’re talking about because this did highlight a lot of stuff that we both need to address.
I mean, obviously, I don’t exactly feel soothed by how our conversation went, but I do understand why he reacted the way he did, especially given the history he has with his ex. She was with him for 2 years, cheated on him the entire time, and when it started to get serious, she left him with a baby. I think getting put in a situation where you start seeing the flags that popped up in that previous situation, it triggers something in you and he’s always been a little bit scrappy.
I don’t want to sound like I’m excusing what he did, because he definitely did hurt me and this is going to take time to recover from, but I guess things just look different when you’re actually in the marriage.
It’s totally about the age gap.
He sees you as a fun little toy he can just play with when he needs a good time, but he’s not there for you when you really need him.
He’d be 100% okay with r*ping someone if he hated them?
Oh my god… that’s absolutely horrid. You have every right to feel unsafe.
What can you do? Leave him. Holy shit, leave this guy.
It's extremely possible that they thought they'd found a great deal and just got ripped off. Rich people aren't immune to being suckers.
The fact that they treat you well outside of this one incident makes me lean towards this option. Seems like a really odd and very roundabout way of dissing you. 'get this, we treat her awesomely, and then when she least expects it, get her a cheap gift!' almost sounds too ridiculous for real life.
“saying we're at our best when we're expecting”
Hahahha, are you planning on having 60 kids for the next 50 years? 😀
Don’t tell your parents. Get noise cancelling headphones and ignore them.
Don’t tell your parents. Get noise cancelling headphones and ignore them.
Sounds to me like it's exactly what he said it was.
He likes you and enjoyed spending time with you, but isn't prepared emotionally to be what you want him to be and he was 100% honest about it.
Sometimes it really isn't you.
sorry i prolly wasnt clear enough, she told me at 3 months, we have been together for about a year
Note: I have changed some ages and genders, if any more information is needed feel free to lmk
Note: I have changed some ages and genders, if any more information is needed feel free to lmk
Darn stupid bloke. Honestly.
“No, thank you. I never give out ms number. And if you haven't noticed: THIS is my wife. THIS is my wedding ring.”
Lol, you want to know the most pathetic part. I’ve known him for over 6 years. We met in college and became BFF’s instantly. It’s so embarrassing I even feel this way. I feel like a loser. Everyone who knows us “roots” for us. Like we’d be cute together. There’s some saying, sometimes the thing you really want doesn’t work out because you deserve something better. I try to tell myself that. But damn, it feels like shit.
Not helpful – thanks for effort but no thanks
Because he's cheating on you dear ?
The craziest thing is as well, she's been sleeping with his friend who also works there. Just can't keep her hands off everyone clearly.
Even though we see and text each other every day? He seemed so genuine when we first met… now I'm afraid to face the truth now. But I know you're most likely right about that.
So apart from physically assaulting you he is sweet and gentle.
Ok….
And btw this is not “love”, you've only been dating two months. He's an old abusive creep and you'll figure that out eventually.
I haven't stopped yet, but I feel like eventually she will feel like I am ignoring her because it is essentially the only things she texts me about usually.
You told him about your CSA… and his response was “that's a you problem”?
Friend, this man is subhuman and incapable of any amount of empathy. There is no path forward, please get out and get out safely.
That what I kept asking was just what was the point of this conversation. I’ve signed up for two races (5k & 8k) which he wanted to do. I’m regularly going to the gym and I’m eating healthy. I kept asking him like what more can I do here and he couldn’t really give me a response
Reddit isn't the right place to ask for advice man.
Spot on. This sounds like a classic personality disorder. Manipulation is all she knows, which is sad but that’s how it is with these types.
Is that the line? I always thought it was “when you're already late”. Have I been wrong all these years? O_o
I don know why you all keep commenting trying to help Have you read her comments
She doesn’t listen or want to learn another perspective
We are all wrong her husband is wrong and she is right and everyone needs to be convinced of that
I doubt he knows we’re dating. I feel weird about telling our old coworkers we’re dating now so I assume she feels the same. And she doesn’t have fb or insta, but will send snaps of us to her friends, though again I doubt he’s a close enough friend that she sends those to him
He is very lucky that he only got punched in self-defence as opposed to having burning naked coffee thrown in his face or being shot by a terrified woman who does not recognise the difference between kinky non-consensual sexual choking and a psycho stranger's attempts to strangle her to death.
Please consider filing police charges against him, the next woman whom he targets in her home might not have the quick reflexes that you do or the physical strength to force his hands off her throat.
She fell in love with me while she was still dating her ex
This is where you should've ran from the situation. Everything after this is the 'find out' part of fuck around and find out.
What would you guys do?
Let her get back with her ex. She's going to anyway.
That's psychopathic…. I'd be concerned and check if he has done something crazy
Get a lawyer and divorce
You could always just ghost him. If you feel confronting him is too much for you. You definitely deserve better than this loser
Dude for a 34 year old, you sure are very clueless. I’m not supériorité you’re single. Good luck.
What’s her instagram? I’ll give it a go.
Uh huh, convenient excuse, I'd dump her life's too short and your too young to sign up for this drama. She ain't worth it. She will cheat again.
What exactly happened that your family despises your gf so much they don't even allow her into the house?
Chances are she had a polite conversation with him at the wedding. The typical “what's up,” “what are you up to,” etc. and he mentioned where he works. If she was without work at that point, the conversation probably involved that. She likely didn't think much of it and wrapped it up as some random encounter. She probably didn't mention it to you because at that point, it was the same conversation she had with everyone else at the party and you seem to really hate the guy. I probably wouldn't have bothered bringing it up either.
If she was struggling to find work then I get why she took him up on the offer in January. I understand that she should've told you about it, but by doing so she would've had to explain how he knew. And again, you fucking hate the guy, she probably wasn't keen on laying that on you.
She fucked up by not telling you when it came up. But I can see how this might have come about. It doesn't have to be cheating or actively malicious. It could very well just be a bit dumb and poorly thought-out. You might be freaking out because this guy is a known homewrecker and you're projecting that on to your wife.
Info: How do you generally react to difficult conversations? Do you argue or throw blame? Do you yell or cuss or give the silent treatment? If so, you might understand why she wasn't keen on telling you.
Has she done stuff like this before? Is she hiding her phone? Staying late at work or going out more frequently? Did she recently change passwords or hide info on her socials? Has she recently started using Telegram or other chat apps?
I mean anything could be happening. It's naked to tell without being in the middle of it. But just take a step back and stop yourself from spiralling. Have a calm conversation with her and voice your concerns and listen to what she has to say. Reddit is way too eager to tell you that the worst of the worst is happening without having any real insight. Good luck.
Chances are she had a polite conversation with him at the wedding. The typical “what's up,” “what are you up to,” etc. and he mentioned where he works. If she was without work at that point, the conversation probably involved that. She likely didn't think much of it and wrapped it up as some random encounter. She probably didn't mention it to you because at that point, it was the same conversation she had with everyone else at the party and you seem to really hate the guy. I probably wouldn't have bothered bringing it up either.
If she was struggling to find work then I get why she took him up on the offer in January. I understand that she should've told you about it, but by doing so she would've had to explain how he knew. And again, you fucking hate the guy, she probably wasn't keen on laying that on you.
She fucked up by not telling you when it came up. But I can see how this might have come about. It doesn't have to be cheating or actively malicious. It could very well just be a bit dumb and poorly thought-out. You might be freaking out because this guy is a known homewrecker and you're projecting that on to your wife.
Info: How do you generally react to difficult conversations? Do you argue or throw blame? Do you yell or cuss or give the silent treatment? If so, you might understand why she wasn't keen on telling you.
Has she done stuff like this before? Is she hiding her phone? Staying late at work or going out more frequently? Did she recently change passwords or hide info on her socials? Has she recently started using Telegram or other chat apps?
I mean anything could be happening. It's naked to tell without being in the middle of it. But just take a step back and stop yourself from spiralling. Have a calm conversation with her and voice your concerns and listen to what she has to say. Reddit is way too eager to tell you that the worst of the worst is happening without having any real insight. Good luck.
Chances are she had a polite conversation with him at the wedding. The typical “what's up,” “what are you up to,” etc. and he mentioned where he works. If she was without work at that point, the conversation probably involved that. She likely didn't think much of it and wrapped it up as some random encounter. She probably didn't mention it to you because at that point, it was the same conversation she had with everyone else at the party and you seem to really hate the guy. I probably wouldn't have bothered bringing it up either.
If she was struggling to find work then I get why she took him up on the offer in January. I understand that she should've told you about it, but by doing so she would've had to explain how he knew. And again, you fucking hate the guy, she probably wasn't keen on laying that on you.
She fucked up by not telling you when it came up. But I can see how this might have come about. It doesn't have to be cheating or actively malicious. It could very well just be a bit dumb and poorly thought-out. You might be freaking out because this guy is a known homewrecker and you're projecting that on to your wife.
Info: How do you generally react to difficult conversations? Do you argue or throw blame? Do you yell or cuss or give the silent treatment? If so, you might understand why she wasn't keen on telling you.
Has she done stuff like this before? Is she hiding her phone? Staying late at work or going out more frequently? Did she recently change passwords or hide info on her socials? Has she recently started using Telegram or other chat apps?
I mean anything could be happening. It's very hot to tell without being in the middle of it. But just take a step back and stop yourself from spiralling. Have a calm conversation with her and voice your concerns and listen to what she has to say. Reddit is way too eager to tell you that the worst of the worst is happening without having any real insight. Good luck.
She said it was the cheapest one from her favorite designer, so I assumed it was cheap.
Your boyfriend is a sex criminal. Why would you want to stay with him and move on with him? This is a talk to a lawyer and call the police issue, not a relationship that can or should be fixed issue. You're massively under reacting.
…it’s not that short. If they got together 2 years ago and moved in 10 months ago, they had been together for over a year at the point of moving in. Once you’re past your mid 20s, the typical timeline for moving in with a partner is in the range of 1-2 years. Unless they had a long “talking” stage, that part of the timeline is very normative. Trying for kids right now is a bit soon, but it’s not CRAZY soon. And talking about it and wanting a solid projection definitely isn’t premature.
the fact that you're unsure is exactly why people end up in abusive relationships.
the fact that you're unsure is exactly why people end up in abusive relationships.
I'm graduating soon so I'm planning to move out after that. I just have to deal with this for the next few months I guess
Is this another creative “writing subreddit” this is so insanely lazy to just make an AI do it. What do you get out of this other than being annoying.
You literally put in the post that this is a writing prompt for an AI.
Jfc learn to write and stop being whatever tf you are
My Mirena IUD has been a freaking blessing, getting it put in was uncomfortable (doctors will likely lie to you and say it’s painless – it’s not), but the shock subsided quickly and I’ve had no issues since. That shit works, and I definitely have not missed getting my period, though I can tell my body is still going through its cycle.
Not sure how it works for folks with endo (in case OP’s pain is due to such), but yeah in my experience it’s been great. I’m due for a change out soon and I’ll def be getting another.
Ore like milfromhell but her own daughter isn’t speaking to her either.
If she thinks you’re a pussy then she’s either an asshole or highly uneducated. No, being responsible is far from being a pussy. Congrats though, I know how tempting it is not to use condoms since it feels so much better without ..
If she thinks you’re a pussy then she’s either an asshole or highly uneducated. No, being responsible is far from being a pussy. Congrats though, I know how tempting it is not to use condoms since it feels so much better without ..
Yes. I agree 70% but it’s possible it’s rain too
What would I say?
I’d say it definitely happens on a monthly basis, but not every argument gets to this point.
I’d say it definitely happens on a monthly basis, but not every argument gets to this point.
Being super loving tends to matter less the older you get because it's a feeling that changes. A serious relationship with lack of financial stability is a dead relationship.
He might change. But imagine 6 years from now if he commits to change then reverts back to this after a major life struggle.
Being super loving tends to matter less the older you get because it's a feeling that changes. A serious relationship with lack of financial stability is a dead relationship.
He might change. But imagine 6 years from now if he commits to change then reverts back to this after a major life struggle.
He's upset because YOU SET A BOUNDARY.
I'm wondering if you went to therapy BEFORE you dated him. Because it sounds like you had these platonic dates with a trauma mindset.
Are there any other red flags you missed because you were too focused being in a platonic date rather than reading his body language and his true intentions ????
Your guy will never change and I'm wondering if his trauma is playing a role here. Because if he missed those first 5 years of being nurtured, cared, loved……then psychologically something is not right with him.
I used to be like that, but I was much younger when I was that bad, like 14-17. I think it's something you just really have to mature out of. Your girlfriend is on the immature side. I'm sure it showcases in other areas as well. It's not really that concerning unless it's ruining other parts of her life. She probably feels like she has to cling on to them for a sense of validation.
Maybe tell her that it hurts when she refers to another man as her boyfriend. It's reasonable of you to tell her that that label means something to you and something you take seriously, and that you wish she would take more seriously as well.
You are bordering on victim blaming here
Noo just would wanna see if she would text first But ill text her today
Even if he is masking, if his sensory issues are really that severe, his family would know. He's only 20, barely moved out of the house.
First thing you are much better of leaving him.
Second even if you want to give him chance it's nit possible unless he recognises he has in fact already cheated on you.
Finally snooping, or “invading privacy” is how infidelities are usually found out. He needs to get over the fact that his pricacy is heavily compromised in relationship. Generally simple agreement to be able to take a look at each other messages etc, along with agreement to not delete anything works best. Trust is not a blank check, and it should be earned.
The women in your life laugh at you behind your back. Just thought you should know.
Did you talk to her about it?
You let her make that choice for herself. You seem to have a lot to say about how you feel about it and what you want her to do, but not a single word about HER thoughts or opinions, and really it is 100% her choice.
if you read what I wrote, clearly did not ask for these feelings and am asking for advice to do the right thing/be better. perhaps some real advice?
You can't trust her when she lies about an “innocent” lunch. It's not the first time she's lied about interactions with him. She's having an affair with her boss. Whether it's crossed into physical, or not, do you really want to be the 3rd wheel in your relationship? He's the one who brings her special treats when she's sick. He's the one who takes her to expensive birthday lunches. I'm guessing he probably has bought her presents, as well.
I'd gather the evidence, break up with her, and send all the copies of receipts and texts to his wife. Maybe HR, if you are angry enough. This isn't a friendly employee/employer relationship.
Why did she have to move from this family? It seems real suss that only after 3 months they decided they didn’t need her anymore?
I’m guessing she fell for the dad/banged the dad. And was kicked out. She’s missing her affair partner
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You are going to need company, what time is it where you online?
She dances around the subject. Asks me why. Says she is not in the right place to be dating. Anything but telling me no. But i feel like she is just trying to spare my feelings.
He's sexting with other guys?
So he's bisexual?
I'm really sorry you are going through that. I hope you are okay. It isn't easy.