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  1. You can leave for any reason you want. If you don’t want to live like that you don’t have too. It is worse to stay and be resentful, only you can make this decision.

  2. Wow, do you feel like a yo-yo, yet?

    This guy has you going in 10 different directions and all you're doing is showing him he can treat you this way and you'll put up with it. Just reading your post made me feel chaotic.

    Yes, blocking him is/was definitely the right thing to do. Now if you'll just keep him blocked…

  3. You’re right, some people do consider it cheating, and others don’t. Which is why you should have open dialogue and talk about it. Which is exactly what she’s doing.

  4. You’re right, some people do consider it cheating, and others don’t. Which is why you should have open dialogue and talk about it. Which is exactly what she’s doing.

  5. If he didn’t mean it he wouldn’t have said it more than once. I’m sure these are not the only times he’s made fun of you behind your back. He is still being cruel about your body, even after you’ve been making a true effort to lose the weight you gained due to an accident. If he is unable to support and love you after having an accident, he is not worthy of your love when you’re healthy again. Might I add that a 25 year old dating an 18 year old is incredibly creepy, wouldn’t surprise me if he yearns for an 18 year old body and is mad that you’re aging.

  6. You’re grown enough to talk to your future baby’s mom. Communicate with her instead of festering some ideas that might not even be what she meant. You’re going to have a baby for gods sake focus on that. You’ll need to prepare, read books take classes. Having a child is not an easy task and you’re focusing on she’s trying to control me bc she doesn’t want a woman near her and yours baby which in not controlling you just don’t like it. Why didn’t you like that she doesn’t want random woman around y’all’s baby? Why did it feel like an ultimatum or controlling? Maybe focus on that bc you’ve got some growing up to do before that baby. She’s communicating with you about her boundary and you run to Reddit, it says a lot about you.

  7. This is very odd behavior for a 31 year old woman. I thought this was gonna be an early 20's person.

    Either way, you don't want this woman in your life anymore. She's trash.

  8. I think you should sit down with her and have a serious conversation about how this bothers you. This isn’t controlling, it’s setting a healthy boundary so you can feel comfortable in the relationship

  9. Well that's your sign

    Clearly you are basically a sex toy for that guy

    He is 10 yrs older and this is clearly a ” my way or the highway type relationship ”

    Time to stand up and find an equal.

  10. Professionals have standards, OP. Be professional and leave this guy, like, immediately.

    There's zero reason to stay with a person who contracts parasites and diseases from the fact that he touches feces and doesn't wash his hands, and then allows you to get sick before telling you.

    For that matter, just the not handwashing is gross, even if he didn't have actual shit covering them. Girl you need to fucking run

  11. Let’s break it down into parts.

    You were a people pleaser, and this is the person that your bf knows and fell in love with. So yes he loves the “perfect” version of you, this doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you as a whole though.

    You are now being more assertive, and he he is saying that while what you ask for is good, how you ask isn’t, and rather than explore that, you ignore it – basically confirming what he is saying. Being assertive is good, but in a relationship, which is supposed to be about compromise, sharing your lives etc, you have to listen and take onboard what the other person is saying (within reason of course) you sound like you have gone from one extreme to the other, rather than stopping in the middle, which is where a good relationship should sit.

    His actions when you want to talk about how you are feeling, these are way less than desired, and definitely not what anyone deserves. His role isn’t to ‘fix’ anything, it’s to be there, to listen, to support, and if he can’t see that, then he is not ready to be in a relationship.

    So regardless of if he loves you as a whole, it’s probably best to end your relationship, be it for good, or a short time while you both work on yourselves before getting back together.

  12. Heartbreak suck and hurt like hell. Make a list of things that you always wanted to, but was too scared to do them. Then do it! Heal I can not say enough! Work on healing from this. You will get through this. You will find someone who matches you more.

  13. This dude is just a weird loser. I promise you aren't bad at sex.. you're new and he's not cultivating the sexual experience with you. Even with my wife.. we both had prev partners but it took some time for me to learn what makes her tick and what feels best for her – and her for me.

    I know he is your first and that holds a special connection but I promise you would be way happier with someone who actually appreciates you. This dude is exploiting the fact that he knows you won't leave and is treating you like absolute shit.

  14. The majority of women date either across or up when it comes to looks and socioeconomic resources. It's not that way for most men, where the majority date down or across.

  15. If your boyfriend knew that your dad is a cop then actually he should have been more careful what he said around your father.

  16. Yeah what are we doing here? Reliving our college days? Lol

    They’re just Tits but, c’mon, all the more reason to not do it.

  17. Just because she has an excuse doesn’t mean it’s okay—especially if she’s not actively working on fixing it. At this point, you’re in an abusive relationship. I kinda hope she dies move on, for your sake.

  18. She sent something when she was underage which this could be a reason why she didn't want to tell you. Fear of judgement, or maybe she just doesn't want to talk about it because she was a minor. She could've possibly been hoping for that person to not come around and send that to you.

    You guys haven't been dating for that long, perhaps she's just not comfortable talking about it yet. It seems like it caused some shit between her and that person hence the fact they're sending out her pictures, which is revenge porn.

  19. The problem with your relationship is you are trying to reason and communicate maturely with an unreasonable and immature person. Your gf is stomping all over your boundaries and she is completely aware of what she is doing. She likes pushing you it’s her jam. She’s not going to stop. Her pay off for her behavior is you becoming apologetic and trying to appease her when she knows that she is in the wrong. She is being manipulative. You will keep running is circles trying to fingers out what you can do right so that she will treat you better and not get upset with you.

    I don’t know if you have suffered abuse in the past. But sometimes people who have experienced abuse in there younger years find ways to deescalate or manage their behavior to keep the volatile nor abusers around them from acting out with verbal, mental or emotional abuse.

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  21. So my plans have to change to make sure hers stay the same? I suggested a day we were both free and she refused for no reason. She has known about my plans for weeks and I have a day off work for them so why should they need to change?

    If my plans were with friends instead on needing the day to relax would you suggest I cancel on my friends because my girlfriend wanted to go for drinks?

  22. I fail to see the problem besides you seeing problems. Does she love you? Does she think about you? If yes then what exactly is the issue? You feel left out? Because you are left out not on vacation. Is that bad? No. Be glad she has a good time.

    She is not responsible for your need for attachment. She is also not responsible for your insecurities.

    And you being responsible for that should be glad that you have someone attached to you, which could make yourself more secure instead of less

  23. Ah right, so you made the same mistake half the people in the army do which is, get married asap to a rando so you can live off base and get a higher pay cheque? At least tell me you didn't piss away money on a dodge charger at a super high interest rate.

  24. You let her know by telling her.

    But I think you're being kind of petty unless your household is struggling.

  25. Yeah this sounds like him a lot, if anything he’s not the type who would ever make fun of someone obviously because of how he was treated, and any gay jokes wouldn’t be well received by him, especially since he very much enjoys that I am bi.

    All the guy at his work are very much the alpha bro types, I think maybe he thinks that’s who he should hang out with because they share common hobbies, but he’s just not the right kind of personality for them.

  26. Trusting? I think the word is “gullible.” I don’t think she’s blameless. It’s natural for OP to question his trust in her.

  27. she said to her friends she was scared i wouldn’t let her go party, but i never did such thing. I just don’t get it

  28. I've been there brother. It started as Facebook messages for my significant other then it gradually went to text messages. Always deleted no record of them until the phone bill showed up. Ended up separating and years later found out they were fucking at least twice a week for about 8 months. Get a hold of it now. To this day I'm told that I wasn't there for her emotionally and she liked somebody paying attention to her. I thought being a good husband was working a lot and paying the bills and being the good father unfortunately I didn't meet her needs so she found them elsewhere.

  29. Wow! Your bf sounds extremely immature. It's no wonder he's dating a man who's 17 years younger. You seem more mature than he is. There's a reason why older men date way younger. Just think about it. He wants to control you. This is only the beginning.

  30. you have a really good point at the end, i’ll try discussing more of what she feels comfortable with. this is probably the best advice i’ve gotten from this thread, thank you!

  31. it's the deadbeat who took away the relationship, not the parent who stayed

    As the parent who stayed, I agree. But that's not my choice to make. Kids are smart. They know who's been there for them. But if the other parent wants a relationship, the kid deserves to know that and make a decision about it (assuming they're old enough to understand). It's not about what's right or fair, it's about giving the child a decision over their own lives.

    We teach the same to adoptive parents in open adoptions. When the child is old enough, let them have a say in visitation with the birth parent. Without that, adoptees and children of deadbeat parents make up stories of the missing parent. Give them reality, or at least the ability to see reality, and they'll feel much more secure and in control.

  32. This is absurd. You are accomplished, intelligent, and clearly engaging enough for even Mr. Socrates. How dare he make you feel like enjoying recreational fiction is an embarrassing character flaw or deficiency you needed to disclose. Don't you dare give into his manipulation.

  33. This is literally the dumbest AITA I have ever read. Like, you guys are adults, correct? You can read whatever you want? You could exclusively read fanfiction and his opinion on it would not matter AT ALL. If your choice of reading material is that big of an issue for him, it's becsuse he has extreme control issues and WILL become manipulative and abusive if you continue. No normal person would even think twice about this kind of thing. I genuinely hope this is some weird tr0ll post

  34. Yes coz theres kids. I dont even know this strong feeling if its love. Theres nothing left to love. But im staying

  35. Why?! If this is really how your circle feels you need both therapy AND friends with better self esteem. Comparing to porn stars is like comparing yourself to a doll, you are real they are not, how could you possibly lose? (Unless you are with a guy that prefers drawings over people). What you are feeling is valid, but is not “normal”.

    I’ve eaten delicious food in really fancy restaurants. If you made me choose between that food and the rice that my granny used to make I would choose my granny’s rice EVERY TIME. I don’t care how “perfect” the food on those restaurants were.

  36. Is she paying for your wedding? No? Then don't plan the wedding around her, I'm sure she's not expecting it! Or if she is then she's not a sane, normal person

  37. She should’ve said no at the onset of the relationship not lie to you several times. She does sound a little hang up on this particular ex. But you can’t delete the past.

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