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But maybe I do need time, even I'm not sure. We're meeting a few days later tho.
Wow. Well, he has an issue. But, he won't stop unless he wants to despite his claims otherwise. Meanwhile….could you enforce him staying at a hotel on the nights he goes out? Also, I would invest in very hot floors. New carpet will be ruined in no time like this.
I agree that deciding not to have sex or that no sex is a dealbreaker are good to communicate and valid for both. I’m astounded she’s confused or “unsure how to feel” about it. She just unilaterally nixed a huge component in most relationships or at least an important one. How self absorbed can you be to be at all surprised that your partner might not like it?
Bro wrote a novel in here. I would definitely watch this show.
Red flag ? — no.
Deal breaker, that’s up to you.
Personally not one, unless she expects you to go down on her.
Ma’am! If you let this man take your son’s vehicle you’re in for a rude awakening! They are othering your child. My suggestion is to have a serious talk about how he really feels within this blended family. My guess is like a piece if something not nice. Whatever you call each other’s children to their face, he treats you son like an unwanted. That’s why HIS daughters can boldly say “We’ll see” about his freaking property. I’m angry for your boy in my heart.
“I can’t do anything right” is a manipulation tactic to get you to go “no no it’s fine it’s not that big of a deal” or otherwise complement him, change the subject, or not being it up again. He’s borderline abusive from the sounds of it. Seriously that’s NOT okay in a relationship and having someone get upset that you’re not comfortable with something is a massive red flag.
Did you not see them for three years? You did abandon him if that’s the case. Really selfish attitude to take to your child and will take years and years to make up for with stability consistency and building trust. This is your responsibility to fix.
Write him an extremely heartfelt letter via Christmas telling him how much you care about him and are proud to have him as a son. Once he's finished reading it, tell him that you'd love to have him call you “dad,” but there's no obligation and he can keep calling you [name] instead if he prefers.
Don't mention overhearing him, just write him a message from the heart.
My first marriage ended because she was a serial cheater. But aside from that your point is valid. I have been in therapy and I’m learning to put up boundaries. It’s been a rough road though. Sometimes things are great. But sometimes the control stuff comes out and it’s very hot to separate my own issues from hers.
Just going out on a limb here, but how do either of you know that she wasn't roofied? She has a drink, goes to bed, guy who roofied her follows her into the bedroom and SA's her, while she is in a nearly incapacitated state. She has a vague recollection of the guy afterward, and when she contacts him, he lies about it.
I'm also mentioning this because I just had a relative describe a very similar scenario that happened to her.
I think your gf should get STD tested at a minimum.
Also, I'm wondering why your gf told you about this in the first place if it was some form of cheating. Since these are her coworkers and not yours, it sounds highly unlikely that this story, such that it was, would have gotten back to you. Or do you know these people pretty well as mutual friends also?
I mean, okay, yes, considerate not really.
You could always try talking to her about it and letting her know you don't want it to affect your work relationship. Anything could've happened and honestly I wouldn't get hung up on it and definitely don't take it out on her without knowing the story. You don't know what happened on her end and sure it sucked for you but sometimes you just gotta move on.
Drop her. Honestly drop her.
She sexually harassed your boyfriend by flashing him un-consensually.
She purposefully used “perfect breasts” to make you feel reaffirmed in your insecurities, and that’s using sensitive knowledge as a weapon at that point.
Then she somehow tries to make herself the victim? Nope nope noooope.
With the way she went out of her way to tell you and your boyfriend how very hot she finds him, and then to act like that? Could you imagine what she could have done to him if she cornered him into a room? She is not a good friend.
your friend literally sexually harassed your boyfriend. she wasn't just shitty, she committed a crime, and a reprehensible one at that. she's 31. shes far too old to be acting like this. at that age she won't improve. drop her
The fact that your edit says dna tests are not an option says all we need to know. They are obviously not his or there's a chance they are not. Poor guy…
You get it. You truly get it. Thank you! A lot of people suspect dementia or a UTI and honestly I do not see it at all. She is 65 and what I describe as “spunky and upbeat” 90% of the time. She gets around just fine, loves doing house work and cooking food (however ironic that might be.) There has been no warning signs of cognitive decline. She drives and functions like a normal adult aside from the fact that she hoards food. She would know if she had a UTI as much as I would know if I had one. I really believe it falls more in line with the fact that she doesn’t like me letting my kids snack during the day and perhaps during the first visit that bothered her. So when she returned for the second visit she thought she found a way to control the situation and when that failed she took it out on the kids because she knew she couldn’t take it out on me! I will consider your suggestion for now I will continue to take the kids to babysitter or daycare until I’m off for Christmas break.
I don’t understand
Try not to give up and continue to believe ill find her one day. (I hold onto silver linings as much as possible)
I don’t think that you read my comment at all. You’re clearly determined to believe that he has zero attraction to you and is just using you for sex despite a plethora of evidence to the contrary (aka him finding you attractive and seemingly caring about your pleasure while also literally saying he finds you attractive).
Since you’ve already decided that he’s “lying,” just tell him you don’t want to be fuckbuddies anymore and move on. No need to spiral over something like this, it’s not like you’re in a relationship or have any reason to care about his opinion. End it and move on since the idea of him being attracted to other body types as well bothers you this much.
Because it means that if I trip and fall they would be there to catch me
Honesty is just always your best option. Maybe not as honest as this post, but communicating your needs is important in any relationship. No one can read minds. One of my friends had a code word for when she wanted to have serious judgment free convos with her spouse. This way both of them knew when the other mentioned that word it was a serious conversation about the relationship and to take it to heart. If you want a real long lasting relationship you have to be willing to have those conversations and communicate what you want and need both now and in the future. If you both are on totally different pages maybe it’s a good sign to see what else is out there.
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What are you going to do, wait til the dad passes and THEN break up with her? Either way it’s two losses for her. Just do it now, especially if she’s rarely at your shared place. Let her focus on her dad while you start to separate your lives.
He asked for exclusivity so it’s cheating. Call Brenda and let her know. He probably told her they were exclusive also. Drop him and be glad you only wasted 2 months on him.
They are! My friend has a pet pig and she is super cuddly!
They are! My friend has a pet pig and she is super cuddly!
There's a reason he's not dating anyone his own age. I don't think you should be with him
Just because you're young, it doesn't mean you enjoy partying.
Do you wanna become a statistic? If not, run the fuck away, block his ass and change the locks.
He is like 30. I can tell he is not a good man. A hypocrite. You stay with him and find out how he will treat you in years to come.
You obviously have never been to a Michelle Star restaurant. It isn't like a normal restaurant or even a “high end restaurant”. It's a completely different experience with a set menu…. You don't get to choose what you want, you are supposed to trust the chef and have the experience the chef chooses for you. There aren't substitutions or tweaks to the menu, you are supposed to follow the story of the menu given to you.
What OP's bf is doing is like going to an opera and yelling out “sing free bird!” constantly.
I Hope so.
I suspect nothing you could do would be good enough. My favourite is you having ED but she needs comforting and reassuring.
Maybe go out with someone a bit more capable and self assured, maybe someone closer to 30?
What good does this relationship bring to your life? It comes across very hot and dysfunctional.
She keeps doing that and her bf will lose interest and leaves her one day tell her that , this is abusive and controlling .
Wtf are you on about lol it's perfectly legal to put a camera in the bedroom. It's HIS own bedroom.
There is a difference between supporting someone for being poly and marrying someone who ignores boundaries. You should not put up with a partner being disrespectful towards you regardless of their sexual preferences. It almost sounds like she and her friends think she is allowed to do whatever she wants without consequences under the guise of being poly which is not fair to you.
As others have said though, you being monogamous and her being poly are fundamental incompatibilities. It would be wise to keep this in mind in your future relationships.
If you’re going to continue being sober, you need to learn how to do it on your own. You need to learn how to control your impulses on your own. I understand your wife was trying to help, but she’s not going to be around you at every event forever. Tell her this.
I’m not sure why breaking up has become a debate. End things. Stop answering her messages and phone calls.
“I’m sorry, I’ve made a decision.”
If you were me, would you stay?
No.
Based on my limited understanding of German culture from knowing grad students from Germany, isn't pretty much every educated native German woman going to feel this way?
Seems culturally things are kind of regimented.
I think this is a her issue given you were like this when she started dating you, but, yes, most people expect to work very hot while they are young to allow themselves to save to have a better life later.
Maybe find a non German to date.
How's your French?
They barely work.
Lol really dude? Why are you here? You already know what to do. That ho for the streets.
You’re right. He is benefiting more from the relationship; are you carrying the emotional burden too? What is he offering? Anything at all? It never gets better; this is only feeding his ego and enabling his entitlement (both of which are also fed by his family). You will have to continue compromising because he won’t change what works so well for him. He will stall your life and drag you down. I know from experience. Please don’t settle.
Yeah.. regardless if we are together or not I’m just going to stop being scared and be myself
Tell her if she really thinks you don't support her you'll take all that business startup money back and stop giving your time to it.
Seems like you need to consult an appropriate lawyer rather than Reddit.
I’ll preface this by saying my partner is amazing. He is diligent. He’s a very hot worker. He’s so intelligent. I think any job would be lucky to have him.
A week later, he landed an amazing job that I didn’t expect he would be able to get. But I can’t shake the voice in the back of my head that is bitter that he got it, considering how little he’s had to work for it. My partner doesn’t deserve it, I do think my partner lucked out getting his job
I think everything you said here contradicts what you supposedly think about your partner.
There is no concrete evidence that he got it through sexism. This is completely a you issue and nothing you would have to work on.
You seem to think grades are very important when it comes to getting your job, but quite frankly they don't matter in retrospect when you have your degree( Coming from someone with good grades when I graduated). He might have just killed the interview and shown social skills and ability to articulate himself in an amazing way aswell with great knowledge about whatever field he is in.
However not once have you considered this in your post and it must be, because of some nepotism based in sexism. This all goes back to what I first pointed out you clearly don't seem to view your partner in very high regard at all….
Your boyfriend is abusing you. Just bc his hands aren’t on you doesn’t mean he isn’t hurting you.
Idk what they're actually called lol
Take the trash out.
Breastfeeding can delay ovulation after giving birth. But it’s not a given that it will and only lasts a couple months.
When you claim being a father and insist on contact and being put on acts retroactively…
….this is the legal result.
I didnt say it was the same thing as porn, as a matter of fact i said its definitely weird, and its definitely something that people should be ashamed of.
To say he obviously has a thing for her specifically is pretty out of touch. You think that these are actual logical decisions that are being made, theyre not. They're just throws of a monke brain. They're masturbating to that person cause their genitals said so. Their genitals want what their genitals want, and it can be anything, not limited to porn and its pretty much random.
The only reasoning involved is that he thought itd be fine because he was alone and it wouldnt matter because nobody would ever find out.
Sleeping with somebody is much worse because you have a whole other person to keep you grounded and thinking clearly.
Thats a rapist mentality if he doesn't even think what he did was wrong. The thing about relationships or any interaction between two people is there needs to be consent or else you are just forcing your selfish will onto people and thats majority of the time a crime. Assault, rape, molestation, domestic violence, etc are just all examples of non consensual acts. Some of which are actual felonies. I suggest you cut it off immediately and go to the police if you have to. The actual worst thing about this is the fact he doesn't even think what he did was wrong. Thats actually sociopathic behavior. To not feel any sort of guilt or wrongdoing of committing a crime. You are putting yourself in danger being around that sort of person so I suggest you book it. Even if it might not necessarily be physical harm, there is also mental and emotional harm.
She reads it for the plot…..riiight
Understanding his point of view is one thing. Understanding his outbursts and how he treats his significant other is another.
I'm going to be honest your fiance sounds kind of awful with how she is acting/treating you. It's one thing to be suprised about a partner masterbaiting and needing a day to get over it. It's another thing entirely to spend over a week treating your partner like shit and emotionally neglecting you and the relationship. Her reaction is immature and not normal, honestly put the brakes on ANY wedding planning. Do you feel like you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who is too immature to talk things through like an adult? See if she is open to counseling or couples therapy cause if not there is a bigger issue here of her wanting to hurt you and control you over this.
You brought up your feelings on being manipulated and her first reaction was to bring up having babies..? Run
So hes abusive and him and his bff are sexist assholes.
Dump him and block him
Have an actual conversation with her
Awww this is tough and you’re still so young, but never ever sacrifice what you want for someone else’s happiness. You will only end up resenting each other. If you don’t want to get married and have kids then definitely don’t! If that means losing him than it’s better now than later going through a divorce.
You only assume he is working 8 hours a day. He could very well be working, sleeping and eating with maybe them to decompress.
And like there's nothing suggesting he wants her yo just sit around waiting for him. He just doesn't want to pay for her to vacation while he works very hot to start building their life together. It's not unreasonable for him to ask her to also get a job and save while he is essentially trying to do that very same thing.