My wife does the same thing. Well not on Instagram, but other sites. When she started doing adult content creation, I'd do the same thing. I would text her and if I went a while without hearing anything I wound check her activity elsewhere during that time. It made me jealous, not worrying about her cheating, but me feeling disrespected.
We spoke about it, and then I realized it's nothing. I'll still check stuff on occasion but only if I haven't heard in a while and am worried something could have happened, so just creating a time-line.
Agree. Removing certain posts made me feel better because I was so hurt by being betrayed and didn't want to be reminded of times I thought were good.
My wife does the same thing. Well not on Instagram, but other sites. When she started doing adult content creation, I'd do the same thing. I would text her and if I went a while without hearing anything I wound check her activity elsewhere during that time. It made me jealous, not worrying about her cheating, but me feeling disrespected.
We spoke about it, and then I realized it's nothing. I'll still check stuff on occasion but only if I haven't heard in a while and am worried something could have happened, so just creating a time-line.