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  1. Because the fear that is anxiety and the depression that grief brings is a horrible combination. There is a reason she spent days watching tv and eating, those are her coping mechanisms, that and getting drunk which is another coping mechanism.

    Sadly I think the person you met who attached so deeply at the beginning was a product of lockdown and circumstance. Now you have a person who has flipped their coping mechanisms to another pattern that she is comfortable with.

    She needs help for herself, not for the relationship or promises or you, for herself to deal with everything in her life. That is a much longer journey and very hot work on her part. What she might need is a support system.

    You need to care for yourself first though, do what you need to do. If that is be a friend and support her through helping herself for at least a year though could be more, until she is in a better place mentally.

    Whatever she did, remember or not, she is broken, by the abuse, by her mental health issues, by her coping mechanisms. By being out of control looking for validation from others, that is what she was doing, offering her body whilst drunk to feel better about herself. It is a self harming, self defeating spiral of self abuse and she is in need of serious high level help for her self destructive choices.

    That doesn't have to mean you help her.

    You don't even know her really, deep down all her demons are coming out, all her past behaviours have resurfaced. This is the person she was before lockdown, before you met her.

    She may need in patient help at this point, be prepared for either a massive mental health breakdown, self harm etc, or another binge drinking session to cope with whatever she thinks will help.

    Try telling her she needs to be in therapy for at least 6 months before you can even talk to her about anything in the future, but you make no promises. Or accept whatever she is going to do has no connection with you and cut her off, leaving her to whatever support system she may have access to.

  2. I didn't have to, but the trip should take 30 mins. That's no big deal to wait and have a wind down conversation while getting ready for bed. After staying up that long, I may as well just wait the final few minutes. After an hour I was worried. Then I made the call when my worries outgrew the other part of me thinking, she's fine, she'll call if she needs help.

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