Also important to note is how are they spending their $- are they flashing it about like, look at me, big spender! Or are they more low-key about their wealth that what they spend it on is subtly high quality. I think you were caught in this guy’s misdirection and couldn’t see the reality. Not only was the spending and lying an issue, the ego trip should have been a red flag as well.
Is your relationship a little on sided? You dress up for him, cater to his needs, and he doesn’t want you to have pleasure during your 3 weeks apart? Is he ok with masturbation, because you know that replaces him during the 3 weeks too?
Also, if he thinks he can be replaced by a vibrator, then he is super insecure.
Definitely don't ignore it. Intimate time is something you should both leave feeling both pleasured and happy, not uncomfortable.
Just say it to him in a way that won't make him feel weird for dirty talking. Something like “hey so this new dirty talk in the bedroom is interesting. I've been really enjoying it but can I ask just one thing ? Can you drop the word pu**y out of it. That word makes me feel uncomfortable”
You're an idiot for asking these questions. You can either let it consume you and ruin your relationship or get over it. I suggest you get over and turn it around. Up your game and find how you can quickly replace this guy as #1 OG (Orgasm Giver). Talk to her and find out what you're doing right and wrong.
I know the praise feels good, but this is a person that will not be a positive influence in your life.
She obviously has her own set of issues that drive her behaviour, and having the kind of relationship you would end up having is not good for her either.
Thank you, I appreciate you trying to understand me and not think I’m crazy! I also don’t think I’m crazy, but my boyfriend was upset that I wouldn’t want to go another time with him and I guess it had me second guessing myself, but there’s a few reasons that have made me feel this way and I stand by them.
Several possibilities: 1. she cheated. 2. she is depressed and needs support. 3. she is physically ill, but doesn’t know it.
we on-line 2h away and cant meet everyday due to my school and stuff so i'm not sure how it would work to go to the gym together and stuff
Also important to note is how are they spending their $- are they flashing it about like, look at me, big spender! Or are they more low-key about their wealth that what they spend it on is subtly high quality. I think you were caught in this guy’s misdirection and couldn’t see the reality. Not only was the spending and lying an issue, the ego trip should have been a red flag as well.
He is clearly still processing his feelings for her, if not still in love with her.
A normal human being would go no contact after such behavior by an ex during a breakup.
I hope so too. Sending good karma for your talk with hubby.
Thank you this helps
Is your relationship a little on sided? You dress up for him, cater to his needs, and he doesn’t want you to have pleasure during your 3 weeks apart? Is he ok with masturbation, because you know that replaces him during the 3 weeks too?
Also, if he thinks he can be replaced by a vibrator, then he is super insecure.
Definitely don't ignore it. Intimate time is something you should both leave feeling both pleasured and happy, not uncomfortable.
Just say it to him in a way that won't make him feel weird for dirty talking. Something like “hey so this new dirty talk in the bedroom is interesting. I've been really enjoying it but can I ask just one thing ? Can you drop the word pu**y out of it. That word makes me feel uncomfortable”
I'm sure he'll be happy to.
You must respect and love yourself more than her. She could get pregnant or get an std from fooling around
You're an idiot for asking these questions. You can either let it consume you and ruin your relationship or get over it. I suggest you get over and turn it around. Up your game and find how you can quickly replace this guy as #1 OG (Orgasm Giver). Talk to her and find out what you're doing right and wrong.
I know the praise feels good, but this is a person that will not be a positive influence in your life.
She obviously has her own set of issues that drive her behaviour, and having the kind of relationship you would end up having is not good for her either.
Break it off!! Immediately!!!
LMAO
Please see my other answer to Eagle-user. ? Longer explanation there.
Thank you, I appreciate you trying to understand me and not think I’m crazy! I also don’t think I’m crazy, but my boyfriend was upset that I wouldn’t want to go another time with him and I guess it had me second guessing myself, but there’s a few reasons that have made me feel this way and I stand by them.