yes that’s the thing he does make me feel special, he always compliments me, makes me feel good, when we are together I feel good but it has been 8 months that’s we haven’t seen eachother and it is always because of me we’ve seen eachotjer cause I’m the one driving to see him
Closer with your boyfriend who can't trust you anymore? Lol
Cmon you were texting up and back with your ex and even spoke on the phone with him several times. I think you might be lying to yourself what your intentions were or what they developed into.
In my personal opinion, if there's no other issues, it's making a mountain out of a mole hill. The hiding wasn't cool, but no one thought that she was an idiot. It wasn't some major, ongoing thing. And usually these concerns stem from a place of insecurity.
Based on your previous post here “swifty” sounds like you are already thinking about divorce so something bigger is going on. If you are unhappy in your marriage then end it if you can't work on it.
I never let my ex drive my car. He had a truck and me and SUV so I usually drove because of the kids. He's verbally abusive and has anger issues. He also won't change because he doesn't see it as a problem. He doesn't care. So all you can do is control yourself and that means removing yourself from the relationship. At some point it is likely to escalate to physical abuse. This is not normal behavior.
Could you please use paragraphs next time? So you think everyone is ganging up on you? You’re in a senior level finance class. What are you disagreeing over in a finance class? Whether to use CAPM or payback period? What would be an example of a disagreement?
I don’t know if they will. The couple of coworkers I’ve met I know they’re married but I don’t know if they’re attending or not. I don’t know how to ask either without her getting defensive again either. I just want to be able to talk about it but I don’t know how
Thats a good way to put it. That is the most charitable interpretation. I ended up letting her know i didnt want to deal with this bs while im on vacation. I feel slighted, but it sounds like Judas was the main culprit and she just overshared with someone she thought she could trust. I apologized that i didnt care to actually ask her about her view on the whole thing, and that if she still wanted to talk after i get back, we could. No response yet
Get up and have a warm drink. Make a naked chocolate and walk a bit. Get an extra blanket and change your sleep pilosition.
How about something related to the profile you just read?
Are you willing to change and push your comfort zones?
That woman is crazy. Maybe just go no contact until she actually behaves like a normal human being.
I would tell her, “if you can get us a sponsored trip to Paris, I am all for it. Let me know when we are going!”
Him staying with you, loving you, caring for you for two years is him choosing you. He could leave whenever he wants but chooses to stay with you.
yes that’s the thing he does make me feel special, he always compliments me, makes me feel good, when we are together I feel good but it has been 8 months that’s we haven’t seen eachother and it is always because of me we’ve seen eachotjer cause I’m the one driving to see him
holy shit
Turns out it was three phone calls and a message saying she's considering meeting up with him.
And we did grow closer after.
Closer with your boyfriend who can't trust you anymore? Lol
Cmon you were texting up and back with your ex and even spoke on the phone with him several times. I think you might be lying to yourself what your intentions were or what they developed into.
nope. i dont really want people to know my real age or exact details. im not comfortable with that
If you get a smart lock, you can control it with your phone, and it sends you a notification if its status changes.
In my personal opinion, if there's no other issues, it's making a mountain out of a mole hill. The hiding wasn't cool, but no one thought that she was an idiot. It wasn't some major, ongoing thing. And usually these concerns stem from a place of insecurity.
Could you give us more context on the jar?
Just tell him you may have led to a misunderstanding, and that you really don't like to be touched except by close family.
Based on your previous post here “swifty” sounds like you are already thinking about divorce so something bigger is going on. If you are unhappy in your marriage then end it if you can't work on it.
I never let my ex drive my car. He had a truck and me and SUV so I usually drove because of the kids. He's verbally abusive and has anger issues. He also won't change because he doesn't see it as a problem. He doesn't care. So all you can do is control yourself and that means removing yourself from the relationship. At some point it is likely to escalate to physical abuse. This is not normal behavior.
Get out of this situation now. He doesn't need your support, he's getting her 'support' every night while he's fucking her.
36M – Why? The only person you find sexually attractive is your husband? I really don’t understand the issue.
Reddit condemns? Isn't this post OP bitching about the age-difference relationship himself? And then people explaining why it's obviously failing?
Could you please use paragraphs next time? So you think everyone is ganging up on you? You’re in a senior level finance class. What are you disagreeing over in a finance class? Whether to use CAPM or payback period? What would be an example of a disagreement?
That's it in a nutshell. He does drugs you don't want to be involved in that – it sounds like a naked limit for you. Respect that. Move on.
I don’t know if they will. The couple of coworkers I’ve met I know they’re married but I don’t know if they’re attending or not. I don’t know how to ask either without her getting defensive again either. I just want to be able to talk about it but I don’t know how
Quantify 'so many'?
Why can’t you bring it up? The hell? She’s your wife and you’re acting like it’s a fucking school principal or something
No like he was dropping him off. Where were they coming from.
Thats a good way to put it. That is the most charitable interpretation. I ended up letting her know i didnt want to deal with this bs while im on vacation. I feel slighted, but it sounds like Judas was the main culprit and she just overshared with someone she thought she could trust. I apologized that i didnt care to actually ask her about her view on the whole thing, and that if she still wanted to talk after i get back, we could. No response yet