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  1. What are you doing about your depression and low self-esteem. Your mom cannot help you with this, other than help pay for therapy or whatever you choose to do. You really need to get on this so you don't feel like this forever.

  2. I wonder if she’s had any past experiences of sexual trauma? Perhaps it’s nothing you have done and it’s not personal to you, maybe sex in itself is sometimes challenging or triggering for her. I could be totally wrong and it may not be that at all but your post resonated and I could relate. If she has had any difficult experiences related to sex, she may have already told you or maybe she hasn’t mentioned anything but it’s worth finding out if anything makes her uncomfortable.

  3. If you want to be honest you have to straight up tell her. Rip off the bandaid and accept any outcome that happens. If she gives you a second chance take it with improving yourself so that doesn’t happen again. But know that there maybe a higher chance of you two breaking up.

  4. Wedding date isn’t set yet, but looking at Dec 2023. Honestly it’s more because we are mid 30s and know we do want to settle down and have kids and are in the position to do so.

  5. He’s been perfect* I was trying to portray that he hasn’t shown any red flags yet and this isn’t a continued pattern

  6. Sounds like you're just looking for an excuse to break up with your GF. You aren't telling your coworker NO. You are offering mixed signals and trying to place the blame on both women.

    At the very least, you owe your GF an explanation. You are not being up front with the entire situation. If you love her, as you say you do, you would discuss your concerns with her.

    Your coworker won't stick around when you leave your GF.

  7. This reads like a creative writing exercises lol.

    My advice is to help him through his addictions and seek help with him platonically. Your friend reached out to you, he needs your support.

    He was being a good guy when he said he didn’t want to place the burden of his addiction on you; addictions are heavy. It’s a lot to bring into a brand new relationship, especially one you’re serious about.

    If you do get with this man, you are in for a LONG road of recovery ahead with him, which will include setbacks and most likely relapses. You’ll probably see him at his worst and the relationship will be tough, and not in the romcom kind of way, in the ‘I don’t know if I made the right decision being with this person’ way.

    He doesn’t want to hold you back from your goals and aspirations; work on those while supporting him as a friend, and once he is in recovery and feels ready for a relationship, go for it, if you’re ready for things to be extremely hard. He would feel TERRIBLE if you guys got together and his addiction did result in you eventually putting your own goals to the side to help him, that’s exactly what he was trying to avoid by not being with you a couple of years ago. And the guilt and shame wouldn’t help him recover.

    Also, as a small note, get ready to not drink around him (or at all), and possibly not keep medication in the house, or keep it locked away. If you’re in a relationship with an alcoholic, you can’t sabotage them by keeping booze and pills around, it wouldn’t be fair.

    Have you seen him when he’s drunk? Really drunk? If he’s been hiding his addictions you may not have seen that, and seeing someone you care about become a totally different person because of alcohol is rough, and you may not like him like that. Exact same with drugs. But if you get into a relationship with him, you can almost guarantee that side of him will show up. It will be unpleasant at times.

    Overall I don’t think it’s a good time to get into this relationship. I think you should wait AT LEAST until he’s in recovery, but even then I’d recommend waiting until he’s ‘in remission’. But again, that doesn’t mean you’re in the clear, he will most likely relapse. If you’re as serious about him as you say you are, buckle in, this is gonna take a while.

  8. They don't necessarily care all the much for you, but they probably like having the control of knowing where you at , and probably enjoy the hit of your need to be acknowledged by them.

    I think you should send via a call or text to them that you are going NC because of x y z for a period of 12 months and then you may revisit the idea. If they harass you or your friend in anyway though, you'll get an official no contact order on them by law.

  9. Meh…like 75% of the adult population has some sort of herpes. Plus, most people believe that it’s only really transmittable when you’re having a breakout, so even if she was wrong in that belief, I don’t think she was being malicious.

    I wouldn’t end an otherwise awesome relationship over this. My wife has herpes (mouth, not genital as far as we know), and if I have it as well now, I’ve never had a breakout.

  10. As a woman, I do feel like there’s a big difference between “did you like that?” vs “what do you like?/how do you like it?” If a partner is asking me if I liked something and I didn’t, I’m less likely to be honest with them. But if they ask me what I like, it keeps the conversation open and makes it less of a “you’re doing it wrong”

    On the flip side, if your gf can’t communicate with you what she likes specifically, it’s certainly not fair for her to expect you to know or figure it out yourself

  11. The fact he feels obliged to lie is concerning about you. Why would it be a problem even if all the players were female?

    Its an on-line game what gender the person you are playing with is not relevent unless the game involes some sort of sexual roleplay.

    Lying is bad but puting someone in a position where they feel obliged to lie about harmless interactions with 50% of the population is kind of a red flag imo.

    If you don't want to date a man with a hobby that doesn't include you then you need to find a guy that shares your hobbies and then learn to accept the fact other women may also participate.

  12. I know. I was just started to become an overwhelmingly bad feeling so I came here to ask what to do. So I’m just going to try to be better by quitting porn and going to therapy about because I don’t want to lose them

  13. It means she likely told you all kinds of things in conversation when you were first going through the breakup. Things like he ain’t shit, I’ll help hide the body, I’ll beat his ass, I’ll do whatever. Things that she doesn’t actually mean, but they often help someone who’s going through a breakup to feel better when they hear. It’s a very basic thing people do when trying to help a friend get over a break up. I personally think it’s dumb, but SO many people do it so often.

  14. it happened when we were briefly separated

    OP and her husband weren't together when the incident he describes as consensual occurred.

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