I'm quite a bit older but my ex-husband talked me into it one time, with my “bff”. Turns out they were having an affair. Don't open doors that are really very hot to shut. If you want the experience, than so be it. But don't do it because HE wants to. And you really need the security in a relationship before you add people to it.
I don’t much agree with the “love languages” part either as I’ve seen really manipulate people use them to coerce others and really misguided people not understand that what they think is their love language is a coping mechanism they used because of a dysfunctional family or relationship
I'm quite a bit older but my ex-husband talked me into it one time, with my “bff”. Turns out they were having an affair. Don't open doors that are really very hot to shut. If you want the experience, than so be it. But don't do it because HE wants to. And you really need the security in a relationship before you add people to it.
I don’t much agree with the “love languages” part either as I’ve seen really manipulate people use them to coerce others and really misguided people not understand that what they think is their love language is a coping mechanism they used because of a dysfunctional family or relationship
But i think the rest of the post was pretty good