Why would you make him pay rent, if you aren't even paying rent? That's not you being kind, not “making him” pay it. That's just common sense. You aren't even paying rent.
Make a meal plan together, once a week, for the full week. Split that in half – each of you responsible for buying whatever day's food. That way it's less exhausting for someone to have to think of something to cook every single day, it will probably be cheaper, and you all have very specific expectations of what you'll be buying in.
Because he started being accusatory and trying to convince her not to stay in the hotel instead of talking about what she'd want and deciding on a plan together, like maybe him staying in the hotel with her and spending the next day together in the city.
Being picked up or taking a 30 minute uber means leaving early and a lot of time in the car instead of being able to crash after the night out. That's not a fair expectation for him to put on her based on unfounded jealously.
Itβs not grooming when they are two adults.
I totally understand you. But things happen. All you an do is trying to male it netter next time π good luck, friend!
Why would you make him pay rent, if you aren't even paying rent? That's not you being kind, not “making him” pay it. That's just common sense. You aren't even paying rent.
Make a meal plan together, once a week, for the full week. Split that in half – each of you responsible for buying whatever day's food. That way it's less exhausting for someone to have to think of something to cook every single day, it will probably be cheaper, and you all have very specific expectations of what you'll be buying in.
Because he started being accusatory and trying to convince her not to stay in the hotel instead of talking about what she'd want and deciding on a plan together, like maybe him staying in the hotel with her and spending the next day together in the city.
Being picked up or taking a 30 minute uber means leaving early and a lot of time in the car instead of being able to crash after the night out. That's not a fair expectation for him to put on her based on unfounded jealously.