I’m gonna parrot advice I’ve seen on similar posts: do what works for you, but prepare to be a single mother. In your case you’ve also gotta prepare for twisting his arm over child support. It doesn’t sound like he’ll give that willingly.
You let an idiot ruin your day and are still letting him ruin your marriage by holding on to this.
Do you have a past?
Think of it this way, who your wife slept with before you is none of your business. She chose to marry you when you asked. All the others were not good enough for her to settle down with. The same goes for your wife. Whoever you slept with before her is none of her business. You chose her to spend your life with.
Anyway, “banging” someone in high school has nothing to do with today. Everyone grows up and becomes different people once they get away from the hell that is high school.
I can relate to so much of what you have said… But… Don't you deserve someone who is interested in you? Who thinks that it's great that you want to make memories together, who listens to you talking about your life and is interested?
You toned yourself down according to his preferences and now he's mad that you are not showing interest… I don't think you are compatible very much. Plus his weird behavior around other people. Do you see any future where this doesn't persist and you don't feel crappy about yourself because of it?
Right ?
As a wife honestly I would laugh but for a man you need to be careful ?
I’m gonna parrot advice I’ve seen on similar posts: do what works for you, but prepare to be a single mother. In your case you’ve also gotta prepare for twisting his arm over child support. It doesn’t sound like he’ll give that willingly.
You let an idiot ruin your day and are still letting him ruin your marriage by holding on to this.
Do you have a past?
Think of it this way, who your wife slept with before you is none of your business. She chose to marry you when you asked. All the others were not good enough for her to settle down with. The same goes for your wife. Whoever you slept with before her is none of her business. You chose her to spend your life with.
Anyway, “banging” someone in high school has nothing to do with today. Everyone grows up and becomes different people once they get away from the hell that is high school.
She chose you! So, let this tacky ass joke go.
I can relate to so much of what you have said… But… Don't you deserve someone who is interested in you? Who thinks that it's great that you want to make memories together, who listens to you talking about your life and is interested?
You toned yourself down according to his preferences and now he's mad that you are not showing interest… I don't think you are compatible very much. Plus his weird behavior around other people. Do you see any future where this doesn't persist and you don't feel crappy about yourself because of it?